Saturday, December 8, 2012

When a Mother Turns 30


In a month I will be thirty years old. I have been thinking of that day for two years now. I was really worried about the end of my twenties and the start of my thirties. All I was worried about is growing up without being able to achieve any of my dreams. Asking other mothers on my social page, I found out that those were the worries of many other women around the world, whose life was a bit tough and haven't got the chance to look after their own life expectations. If you are a woman with dreams then you are blessed because those dreams will help you wake up every morning hoping for the best. Don't neglect them, work your best on fulfilling at least one, then age won't be a problem to you, in the contrary, you will cherish growing older and getting closer to achieving all of your life projects, dreams or hopes.

When you're a mother every year you spend with your family provides you with more expertise on life. To manage your days, you should have many skills up your sleeves, which means that you have a deep knowledge in almost every matter, your capability of problem solving is stronger and your awareness is more profound.

Turning thirty when you're a mother should be a pride, a reward even a trophy. You should be proud to announce that you are a thirty year old mother. Compare yourself to your successful single friends, they might have gotten high positions or a wild life but none of them have gained the experience you have when caring for young souls. When you're not a mother you cannot possibly understand the meaning of strong love because only children can give you unconditional love, only children will care for you and love you no matter what you are and regardless of who you are.

So on you thirtieth birthday, don't look back in distress look forward and be proud because what you won't or couldn't achieve your kids might fulfill it with you. Remember that as a mother you have a better chance of realizing all your hopes thanks to your little helpers. Maybe your children will want to be what you couldn't be; maybe one of them will coincidently have a similar dream to yours. On your thirtieth birthday, sorrow shouldn't be on your guest list but the hope for a better life surrounded with your beautiful family.

May we all have a happy thirtieth birthday!

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